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Shail wrote:This may come as a shock, but believe it or not, a real hug can make a difference in someones life. After my 1st gf died, I was really depressed, was going to attempt my suicide a 2nd time. But my 1st friend, the best bro I've ever had managed to talk me out of it with a hug. Now, before all you homophobes(It's not a phobia, you're just an ignorant asshole) start screaming *gaaay*, there was none of that crap going on. Hug from a bro, a bro-hug, does wonders to help people who are lonely and depressed. It may not seem like much for people with alot of physical contact, but I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume most people here aren't getting alot of positive physical contact. When you don't get physical contact much, the times you actually do are that much better, 5 years later I can still vividly remember the first true hug I've ever had, with my 1st gf a few days before she died. It is still my most cherished memory, and the reminder of that gives me hope when I'm down, that simple act has had a large impact on my life and my development as a person. You people joke about hugs like it's nothing, but you're underestimating how much of an impact they can really have.

Neoteros wrote:Guys... a person who tells you something along the lines of, "now that I know how do you sound, I wonder how do you smell", can still be considered normal, or has she crossed the line between "perfectly normal" and "fucking creepy"? XD (We have chatted on Facebook for almost 2 years, but for some weird reasons probably related to our social awkwardness we didn't call each other on Skype until 3/4 days ago. Some days ago, she said this rather unsettling gem.)

Auratus wrote:

Neoteros wrote:Guys... a person who tells you something along the lines of, "now that I know how do you sound, I wonder how do you smell", can still be considered normal, or has she crossed the line between "perfectly normal" and "fucking creepy"? XD (We have chatted on Facebook for almost 2 years, but for some weird reasons probably related to our social awkwardness we didn't call each other on Skype until 3/4 days ago. Some days ago, she said this rather unsettling gem.)

Well. I think you should draw the line yourself. I would reply something along the lines of "If you wonder about it, Feel free to smell me."

OtakuNinja wrote:A hug is the best cure you'll ever find for a broken heart. :3

Time to post something in this thread again, to get it off my mind... I like 2 girls. Before they were in separate classes, but this year (senior year btw) they've both transferred to my class and they've become best friends. I have no idea what to do. T_T

OtakuNinja wrote:Time to post something in this thread again, to get it off my mind... I like 2 girls. Before they were in separate classes, but this year (senior year btw) they've both transferred to my class and they've become best friends. I have no idea what to do. T_T

RedRover wrote:

OtakuNinja wrote:Time to post something in this thread again, to get it off my mind... I like 2 girls. Before they were in separate classes, but this year (senior year btw) they've both transferred to my class and they've become best friends. I have no idea what to do. T_T

Fo' real, though, this sounds suspiciously familiar. Just, uh... do what Mr. Xanatos said. I don't feel fit to give advice here, since the one time this happened to me, I just sat around until I was friendzoned by both of them.

OtakuNinja wrote:Time to post something in this thread again, to get it off my mind... I like 2 girls. Before they were in separate classes, but this year (senior year btw) they've both transferred to my class and they've become best friends. I have no idea what to do. T_T
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One of them rejected me 2-3 years ago, but she's really friendly now. The other probably liked me before summer (according to a friend), but it's very hard to spend time together, so I have no idea if she still does. :/

Avensovt wrote:

OtakuNinja wrote:Time to post something in this thread again, to get it off my mind... I like 2 girls. Before they were in separate classes, but this year (senior year btw) they've both transferred to my class and they've become best friends. I have no idea what to do. T_T
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One of them rejected me 2-3 years ago, but she's really friendly now. The other probably liked me before summer (according to a friend), but it's very hard to spend time together, so I have no idea if she still does. :/

You said you like 2 girls, and I guess it's normal for you to feel physically attracted to them. but do you love them? Or better, do you love one enough to put in risk your friendship with the other or even with both?

I have not much of a clue on how your relationship with them is. I would say that if you really loved one of them, there wouldn't be doubts in choosing one or another. Maybe you just "like" them and would be interested.

In any case, go for broke. I don't regret any "no" i got in life. At least I tried. (would be stupid to think about it and remember we didn't even try)

OtakuNinja wrote:But as it is now, if I fail at one I fail at both. :/

Xanatos wrote:

OtakuNinja wrote:But as it is now, if I fail at one I fail at both. :/

Unless they're a hive mind, this is nonsense.

Go for the one who liked you. And don't say you love her, it'll creep her out.

rockin robin wrote:

Xanatos wrote:

OtakuNinja wrote:But as it is now, if I fail at one I fail at both. :/

Unless they're a hive mind, this is nonsense.

Go for the one who liked you. And don't say you love her, it'll creep her out.

Definitely, and as long as it's out of earshot you could potentially ask both.

Xanatos wrote:

OtakuNinja wrote:But as it is now, if I fail at one I fail at both. :/

Unless they're a hive mind, this is nonsense.

Go for the one who liked you. And don't say you love her, it'll creep her out.

Avensovt wrote:

Xanatos wrote:

OtakuNinja wrote:But as it is now, if I fail at one I fail at both. :/

Unless they're a hive mind, this is nonsense.

Go for the one who liked you. And don't say you love her, it'll creep her out.

It's not totally non-sense. No need for hive-mind to think: "oh, so i'm plan B, right?"

But I agree with going for the girl that liked him. More chances. And always be nice to the other, but never crossing the line (unless plan A fades).

Still, I admit I can't imagine falling in love with 2 girls at the same time. But I guess everyone has his own concept of love

rockin robin wrote:I think off love in layers. Lust, affection, love, dependency. First too interchangeable. I've been at the first three with many people but the fourth with one.