muliebrity wrote:You wouldn't be "taking a girl away from [your] friend", she's a sentient being and the worst you'd be doing is being more interesting to her than he is, and if anyone would take home dick of the year it would have to be both of you.
their relationship is the kind that exists for the sake of existing. i know what's underneath the surface... it's not much. i know my friend super-well and i know her super-well, and i know their relationship super-well. trust me when i say there's not much to it.
i guess this is why i'm struggling so much with this. i can't help but feel terrible when i'm chilling/texting her, but at the same time, i feel amazing because i get along with this girl so well and she likes me back. it's the same kind of glow you get when you're with your crush--a sort of insane happiness.
mulibrity wrote:I let her interest wane
her interest hasn't waned for a year. i probably could make it, if i was a total ass to her and didn't respond to her texts, but i don't think that's the right solution.
i also understand the fact that i'm facilitating the break-up of my friend and his girl... and she's party to it... this is why i'm so torn-up. my dream girl's right there, but i've got to stomp all over my morals to get to her.