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by Beoran
Thu Sep 27, 2012 12:55 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
Replies: 4861
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Wanderingheartache, Keep at it for finding a job. Since you don't have an extended education, perhaps try to develop some professional skills. I said it often, but for every 100 letters or e-mails you send, you may only have 1 concrete job offer or less. S spam away. Perhaps look fora job more far a...
by Beoran
Tue Sep 18, 2012 1:14 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
Replies: 4861
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Keneshiro, well, it looks like you have your work cut out for you in several ways. If you want to become a doctor for your ow sake, then tell your father that. Your' not living for him, you have to make your own life.
by Beoran
Mon Sep 17, 2012 4:29 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
Replies: 4861
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Well Keneshiro, that's a step ahead, I think! I'm especially glad you talked to your father. :) However, I'm still a bit worried when you say "being a doctor is the only job that sort of interests me", especially the "sort of interests me". I think you should find a way to make that "really interest...
by Beoran
Sat Sep 15, 2012 4:19 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
Replies: 4861
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Keneshiro, I feel that the reason you're demotivated is because you're tired of following your father's desires. Don't sell yourself short. You're smart enough, and if you were motivated enough, you too would have passed. But the fact that you went to that university just to run away from your fathe...
by Beoran
Fri Sep 14, 2012 4:32 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
Replies: 4861
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Wetterl, It's good to hear that things are starting to go better for you. Those three points are very valuable. Life does not "have" meaning, it's something you have to give meaning by living it now. If you're considering a job as a computer programmer, it can earn quite well, as I can attest. This ...
by Beoran
Wed Sep 12, 2012 1:50 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
Replies: 4861
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Auratus, maybe you are making simple things too complicated? I think you can stay in touch with that girl even though she lives far away. Like Yuuko says to Hisao: "It's only an elephant if you feel it is." Do your best to be kind to others, but be honest. Don't worry about your way of talking, if s...
by Beoran
Mon Sep 10, 2012 4:01 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
Replies: 4861
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@Auratus, yes, ask her how to stay in touch. And also, be honest to her. Don't idealize her. Just tell her that you like her, and see if she responds in kind. If she has a BF, then move on. It's nice to have a friend, but what you want is love, so go for that goal. I hope all will turn out for the b...
by Beoran
Sat Sep 08, 2012 3:28 am
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
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I like studying, just that, like you, I like the Internet more. I discovered it in University, 16 years ago, when it had only started to get known. Keneshiro, I dare estimate that you're smart enough but need to be more dedicated to studying. Study first, then play when you are finished. It's your o...
by Beoran
Thu Sep 06, 2012 3:07 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
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Keneshiro, i also had a few close shaves in university, but that was mostly due to my own laziness. If that isn't your case, then perhaps you're just not completely ready for what you where studying, or perhaps not interested enough. Please think well about what you want to do now, perhaps even appe...
by Beoran
Thu Aug 30, 2012 2:46 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
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Auratus: a little tick I used to get over a crush was to pinch myself or slap myself in the neck whenever I thought positive things about the girl in question. Do so consistently and you'll see the feelings will cool down much quicker than normally. It's a bit like training yourself not to idealize ...
by Beoran
Wed Aug 29, 2012 1:35 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
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Juonkiku, thank you for your story. It's sad, but at least you found out quite she wasn't the right person for you. Don't lose your confidence in others and yourself. I am sure that if you keep looking, you will find someone who loves you more truly. Gandara, you like the girl so I'd tell her "I thi...
by Beoran
Mon Aug 27, 2012 3:18 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
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Magnenntae, thank you for your story. It sound like you're having some mood swings as of lately, but those could be caused by many things. It could be the impact of playing KS, but if you're worried, first visit a doctor about it, get your blood checked, etc. The brain is also part of the body and c...
by Beoran
Sun Aug 26, 2012 2:59 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
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AManWhoWantsToFeel, thank you for your story. You seem to have a lot of anger, which is probably due to the state your family is in. I think it's a normally bad idea for a couple to stay together if the love is completely gone... I hope your parents can find the courage to either realize that it isn...
by Beoran
Fri Aug 24, 2012 1:52 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
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Not only heroin, I'd recommend against most any illegal substance. The thing is: a chemical can't be controlled. One it's in you it will run it's course and do it's damage. And some substances can go into your fat tissue and stay there and cause troubles fore a long time.
by Beoran
Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:24 pm
Forum: Public Discussion
Topic: Hanako's Broken Heart Club
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OtakuNinja, great to hear it's going well. Have fun, and why not try to get closer to your love interest? Remember: if she rejects you, it's fine too, you saved much time. If she accepts on he other hand, ... . "A no you already have, but a yes you can get, perhaps." as one lady once taught me. If y...